The House Out Back

I’ve been working on this blog post for some time (i.e. watching HGTV), so I had some words in reserve (i.e. making notes as thoughts come to me), but let me first say thank you to everyone willing to share their extra words with me during my recent word shortage. I’ve never let my supply drop so low and plan to never let that happen again. O.O

I didn’t get the idea for this post all at once. It kind of crept up on me, even before I began my epic adventure in the NaBloPoNo Month Long Blogging Challenge. Don’t get me wrong. I write novels. I know about conflict. And I get that reality TV needs conflict to capture viewers. I even watch it FOR the conflict because that is mother’s milk for my characters. If you want to see how people react to stress, just tune into Top Chef or Project Runway or Survivors.

When I started watching HGTV, semi-regularly at first, it was about moving. Specifically it was about moving from New Orleans to Houston. But a funny thing happened on the way to my move and beyond. I kind of got hooked on some of the shows. There’s a reason The Daily Beast called The Property Brothers reality TV’s crack cocaine.

But let’s face it. If you watch any show where real people get in front of the TV, then you’re going to see real behavior—sometimes real, less-than-wonderful behavior.

So here are my notes from Lessons Learned from Watching HGTV:

•    Be grateful for what you have. (This one came to me watching a couple trying to downsize. What they really wanted was not less space, but to pay less rent.)
•    Sometimes you have to fix the foundation before you can fix the house. This is true for people and houses.
•    Sometimes you need to fall in love again. Sometimes you need to move on. (From Love it or List it).
•    A tool belt isn’t always a bad thing (I never promised every lesson would be deep)
•    People may not see us the way we see ourselves. (You see so many people who think they are hip or cool or something. And then they open their mouths…)
•    Learn to see what’s there, not what you want to be there—and be grateful for it. (I see so many people looking at truly beautiful, expensive houses and they wouldn’t be happy if they were hung with a new rope — a favorite phrase of the hubs. I was really touched by one episode of House Hunters. A single mom just wanted a home for her and her son. She was so humble and grateful for the modest home she finally found.)
•    Unrealistic expectations make you feel helpless and unhappy. Change your expectations and your circumstances will be better.
•    If your housing “budget” is HALF A MILLION DOLLARS OR MORE, you should never use the word “only” in front of it. And you should smile more. You can (apparently) afford a half a million dollar house.
•    If you hire an expert to do something, don’t tell them how to do their job
•    Don’t confuse hours of watching HGTV as expertise on anything (the hubs insisted I add this one.)
•    Sometimes you need to focus on details, but sometimes you need to see past details to big picture
•    What’s REALLY important (IMHO an extra bathroom is harder to install than an island in the kitchen and I’ll bet there is a life lesson in there, too.)

Well, those are my lessons. Have you learned anything from watching reality television? From my list? And don’t forget that all comments also get entered into my monthly drawing for an AnaBanana gift basket. It’s filled with $50 (in honor of NaBloPoMo) of yumminess. Winner will be announced the first blog post of December. 🙂

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5 thoughts on “Lessons from HGTV

  • November 25, 2013 at 8:31 am
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    That’s the one thing I miss about not having tv anymore (we use only Netflix now) – flipping through channels and watching the stupid shows on HGTV and Food Network. When Survivor first started airing, we watched it and used it to teach our kids about psychology and friendship and loyalty and honesty. They’re mostly autistic so we needed something blatant and relatable.
    Those are great life lessons, Pauline. It’s amazing how incredibly obnoxious and picky some of those people are. It makes me never want to be like them. So when I start whining or feeling ungrateful, I look around me and start counting my blessings.
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    • November 25, 2013 at 8:34 am
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      Being grateful for what we have is always a good way to be happy. So glad you liked my list and thanks for stopping by! I know you’re super busy! Hugs!

  • November 25, 2013 at 2:08 am
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    There are so many reality shows now it’s hard to keep up with all of them. I guess because I worked in law enforcement I enjoy the new law reality shows they have now. There’s one in particular that they allow the camera to follow cops from four major cities, much like they do with journalists and such. I like that one. What we learn. Just how much crime & bad people there are in this world. So I’m not sure if that’s really good for us….but I don’t think I could give it up!! LOL 🙂 Luv the post & sharing now!!

    • November 25, 2013 at 8:33 am
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      Isn’t that the truth? I could watch “reality” all day, if I wanted to. LOL I guess I kind of knew, but was surprised when a friend told me she wrote scripts for House Hunters. So Cops is much more real than House Hunters. Yes, that is on at our house, too. LOL Thanks so much!

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